Whats Love?
I keep thinking on what Love is, a lot more, these days. I used to believe that if someone spends a lot of time with somebody & specially if they are of opposite genders, they tend to fall in love. Isn’t it so?
I believe that a boy & a girl can’t be friends at all. If they could say so, I wish they could be true to themselves. Atleast, in some course of their friendship, they would have thought about getting together (I mean, in a platonic sense) in life. This thought would have occurred secretly & seperately! I suppose, thats a practical thought & there is no guilt associated. One can possibly ignore the other, only for reasons that are external; such as humiliation, family settings, prosperity, etc. If someone (opp. gender) is a friend of you, which means he/she has already adjusted/matched with your personality. Marrying such a friend is much better than arranging a marriage with someone else & is very plausible.
So, if I have, say n friends, how to choose “a” (or “the”, possibly) person for this kinda relationship upgrade. How to identify/grab the person when he/she comes in one’s life? Because I have serious doubts on whom to love & whom to ignore! <:o(
I asked this to someone I know & this was the reply (edited):
Love is a different but a special feeling. When your inner heart starts to smile, the moment you see a person. Gottcha!, he/she is the person to grab. You will feel to miss something when that person is not with you, even for a minute. You will not care for anything else in the world. You will be ready to take any risk for him/her in your life. Its more like listen & follow your inner heart. It will always be right.
Damn! I haven’t yet “felt” such things with any person. And, I don’t think, I would ever feel so! <:o( So what to do? Wait for the “Natural Selection” to happen! >:O)
Also, I understood this with the help of my friends:
Love is something that cannot be tried with a person! No effort can to be put to start & run Love. Its a natural process & germinates on suitable environmental conditions. Wait for it to happen. Don’t ever try to catalyst. You withdraw your waiting, when you timeout. Have no despair.
Here is a FWed from another of my friends:
Once, there was this guy, who was in love with a gal. She wasn’t the most beautiful and gorgeous but for him, she was everything. He used to dream about her, about spending the rest of life with her. His friends told him, “why do you dream so much about her, when you don’t even know if she loves you or not?
First tell her your feelings, and get to know if she likes you or not”. He felt that was the right way. The girl knew from the beginning, that this guy loves her.One day when he proposed, she rejected him. His friends thought he would take to alcohol; drugs etc. and ruin his life. To their surprise, he was not depressed. When they asked him how was it that he is not sad, he replied, “‘why should I feel bad? I lost one who never loved me & she lost the one who really loved and cared for her.”
Never Cry for One Who Makes You Cry!
So don’t waste your time in “trying/forcing” something, let the patience reward you. >:O) Best Wishes. Cheers!
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