Mars & Venus
Starting from this decade, the Mars gets it a lot quicker, while the Venus gets it a little late!
What is it? >:O)
(Do comment; Will update this post, a day after!) – Updated!
Well! “It” is “Marriage” – No one got it!! Sad!
Considering men to be from mars & women from venus, I think, their timings of getting married got varied these days. In the sense, men get an early marriage, while the women get it late. Myself & my roomie had some discussion about this.
Men because of getting high-paid jobs & financial freedom, tend to settle early in life. They seek for marriage, as thats the only thing that seem to be pending!! Lower interest rates & ease of availability of Home Loans well served to be the catalysts. A car, a house, some bank balance, a foreign return, good earning capacity – all these occur a little early in a Man’s world. You’ll see a missing item here – a Good girl. >:O)
Women on the other hand, are the now torch-bearers of the family. Many have started to work, they too get paid well, financial freedom comes at ease. Socially, a working woman is well received. Women go out a lot more today & they are well informed. They seem to chase careers & knowledge. Marriage seems to be unimportant until they receive a 50K salary.
A 26 year old woman getting married is very common, nowadays. So as to for a 25 year old man. This won’t be the case a couple of decades ago – a 22 for a Woman & a 29 for a Man; would be the ages of knots.
Okie. Unloosening the horses, we’ll do some creative stuff! >:O) Ever thought of why John Gray chose Mars & Venus to describe Men & Women in several of his publications? Why not Mercury & Neptune? Here are the reasons:
- In Greek mythology Mars is the god of War. So used to represent Men. Venus is the Godess of Love & Beauty. Hence, Women.
- Mars & Venus are are the closest planets to Earth. Yep! Our Earth is in the middle of them, like a Nandhi. Mars & Venus are as such, inhospitable (lifeless). But when they come close, I mean as in marriage, they become hospitable (life). If they had to come close, they had to end-up in Earth, where life enjoys birth! I would say that Mars & Venus came close to Earth to bring life into existence. >:O)
- Venus is generally mistaken to be a “Star (evening)” because of the “attention” it gets by reflecting a lot of light. I guess its yellow, as in Turmeric. All of the Womankind.
- Mars is seen as a Red planet. Red as in Aggression. The trait of Manhood. By the way, it has two tiny natural moons!! (Venus doesn’t have any!!)
Do you have a say? >:O)
Nirek said,
January 23, 2007 at 12:41 pm
Dude, mars and venus are allusions for guy and girl. So i think u r heading towards one more thrattle type of philosophy on love topic with this debate.
Am i right??!
Ranjhith said,
January 23, 2007 at 1:34 pm
Nirek,
Yep! You are close >:O) But you haven’t mentioned what “it” means here? Do think over!!
ramya said,
January 23, 2007 at 3:41 pm
ennapa idhu…chinnapulla thanama iruku….enakku enga amma ippo than farex ootara vayasu, idhellam ketta nekku eppadi theriyum…comedy pannadha..
actually wats this ranjHith???? :(
Ranjhith said,
January 23, 2007 at 4:11 pm
Ramya,
Paarunga, unga blog URL is wrong!! Why don’t you remember? Isn’t it urs?! >:OP
Onnum chinna pulla thanamaa yellam illenga – neenga thaan chinna pulla thanamaa Farex yellam keatkurenga!! >:OP
Try it out – do mull on it & tell me what “it” is!!
Nirek said,
January 23, 2007 at 7:11 am
Dude, mars and venus are allusions for guy and girl. So i think u r heading towards one more thrattle type of philosophy on love topic with this debate.
Am i right??!
ranjhith said,
January 23, 2007 at 8:04 am
Nirek,
Yep! You are close >:O) But you haven't mentioned what “it” means here? Do think over!!
ramya said,
January 23, 2007 at 10:11 am
ennapa idhu…chinnapulla thanama iruku….enakku enga amma ippo than farex ootara vayasu, idhellam ketta nekku eppadi theriyum…comedy pannadha..
actually wats this ranjHith???? :(
ranjhith said,
January 23, 2007 at 10:41 am
Ramya,
Paarunga, unga blog URL is wrong!! Why don't you remember? Isn't it urs?! >:OP
Onnum chinna pulla thanamaa yellam illenga – neenga thaan chinna pulla thanamaa Farex yellam keatkurenga!! >:OP
Try it out – do mull on it & tell me what “it” is!!
ramya said,
January 24, 2007 at 8:31 am
aamam…ovoru dhadavaiyum nan correcta url adikaracha autocorrect mathidudhu :(
appala correct panikaren ma…yosichu sollanumna yarachum answer kandu pidikara varaikum yosipen paravayillaya ungalluku…
Ranjhith said,
January 24, 2007 at 9:42 am
Ramya,
> ovoru dhadavaiyum nan correcta url adikaracha autocorrect mathidudhu :(
Appidinnu sollitu marupadiyum marupadiyum autocorrect victim aayuteengale!!
Yep! Konjam unga thinking hata thoosuthatti vayunga. Yarum kandupidika venam! Will update the post myself! >:O)
ramya said,
January 24, 2007 at 3:01 am
aamam…ovoru dhadavaiyum nan correcta url adikaracha autocorrect mathidudhu :(
appala correct panikaren ma…yosichu sollanumna yarachum answer kandu pidikara varaikum yosipen paravayillaya ungalluku…
ranjhith said,
January 24, 2007 at 4:12 am
Ramya,
> ovoru dhadavaiyum nan correcta url adikaracha autocorrect mathidudhu :(
Appidinnu sollitu marupadiyum marupadiyum autocorrect victim aayuteengale!!
Yep! Konjam unga thinking hata thoosuthatti vayunga. Yarum kandupidika venam! Will update the post myself! >:O)
Marutham said,
January 25, 2007 at 12:42 am
SPAM- vandhachu ….. ;)
//You’ll see a missing item here – a Good girl. >:O)
// Had a good laugh … :P
i mean only this line…..
Rest of urpost..abt mars & venus….
hm… I still wonder why men are related to MARS while it is actually women(not all) these days who reflect t charecterisitics.
John is no more..thats one reason.
Enakku epavum indha mars- venus matter’la oru bad exprnce..so indha postla avlova edhum pesala … :)
PS:ivlo pesitu- pechapaaaaaaaru ??!! ;)
Marutham said,
January 25, 2007 at 12:43 am
Nice template… :)
Marutham said,
January 24, 2007 at 7:12 pm
SPAM- vandhachu ….. ;)
//You’ll see a missing item here – a Good girl. >:O)
// Had a good laugh … :P
i mean only this line…..
Rest of urpost..abt mars & venus….
hm… I still wonder why men are related to MARS while it is actually women(not all) these days who reflect t charecterisitics.
John is no more..thats one reason.
Enakku epavum indha mars- venus matter'la oru bad exprnce..so indha postla avlova edhum pesala … :)
PS:ivlo pesitu- pechapaaaaaaaru ??!! ;)
Marutham said,
January 24, 2007 at 7:13 pm
Nice template… :)
Ranjhith said,
January 25, 2007 at 8:46 am
Vaanga Marutham,
Long time no see!! >;O) Hmm! Hope you had good fun. There is one more good laugh in this post – I felt it to be very funny – Yaarachum kandu pidikaraangalaa innu parkalam!
> I still wonder why men are related to MARS while it is actually women(not all) these days who reflect t charecterisitics.
I don’t get this! Explain pls.
John is a man – man landed something on mars – so he is out! >:OP
Yeop! Template is good – dark & light with blue – nice palette!
ranjhith said,
January 25, 2007 at 3:16 am
Vaanga Marutham,
Long time no see!! >;O) Hmm! Hope you had good fun. There is one more good laugh in this post – I felt it to be very funny – Yaarachum kandu pidikaraangalaa innu parkalam!
> I still wonder why men are related to MARS while it is actually women(not all) these days who reflect t charecterisitics.
I don't get this! Explain pls.
John is a man – man landed something on mars – so he is out! >:OP
Yeop! Template is good – dark & light with blue – nice palette!
Marutham said,
January 25, 2007 at 11:35 pm
Chinna pulla…. vitrunga..puriya vendiyapo puriyum :P
Marutham said,
January 25, 2007 at 6:05 pm
Chinna pulla…. vitrunga..puriya vendiyapo puriyum :P
Ponnarasi.K said,
January 28, 2007 at 9:57 am
Nice post..How did i miss this…
Thought provoking..
Ponnarasi.K said,
January 28, 2007 at 4:27 am
Nice post..How did i miss this…
Thought provoking..
Nirek said,
January 28, 2007 at 7:58 pm
Dude…
the addendum to the post looks like a big generalisation! Guess the scenario in urban centres made u think like this for this decade. But world is not just Indian IT population in urban centres :)
and thoughts behind gray’s usage of mars and venus is truly awesome. certainly thrattle style creativity. Two moons (balls) matter mattum koncham too much ;)
Nirek said,
January 28, 2007 at 2:28 pm
Dude…
the addendum to the post looks like a big generalisation! Guess the scenario in urban centres made u think like this for this decade. But world is not just Indian IT population in urban centres :)
and thoughts behind gray's usage of mars and venus is truly awesome. certainly thrattle style creativity. Two moons (balls) matter mattum koncham too much ;)
Ranjhith said,
January 29, 2007 at 1:23 pm
Marutham,
> puriya vendiyapo puriyum
Yabba! Yeapoinga athu! Do you have any time frame? >:OP
Goldu,
Ho Thanks! Miss you didn’y miss this! >:OP
Huuh! Thought Provoking!?! It’s good news for thŕattle! Could you please share with me about the provoked thoughts! >:O)
Nirek,
I’m being surrounded only by such crowd, so may be I perceived things in respect to them. Thanks for pointing out.
Thanks fella. Then yao! I guess you have multitude of interests in science. We are talking about Astronomy/Literature & not Anatomy! >:OP
ranjhith said,
January 29, 2007 at 7:53 am
Marutham,
> puriya vendiyapo puriyum
Yabba! Yeapoinga athu! Do you have any time frame? >:OP
Goldu,
Ho Thanks! Miss you didn'y miss this! >:OP
Huuh! Thought Provoking!?! It's good news for thŕattle! Could you please share with me about the provoked thoughts! >:O)
Nirek,
I'm being surrounded only by such crowd, so may be I perceived things in respect to them. Thanks for pointing out.
Thanks fella. Then yao! I guess you have multitude of interests in science. We are talking about Astronomy/Literature & not Anatomy! >:OP
Nirek said,
January 29, 2007 at 8:54 pm
Can I know the Science/Literature reason behind these lines
>>By the way, it has two tiny natural moons!! (Venus doesn’t have any!!)
Nirek said,
January 29, 2007 at 3:24 pm
Can I know the Science/Literature reason behind these lines
>>By the way, it has two tiny natural moons!! (Venus doesn’t have any!!)
Ranjhith said,
January 30, 2007 at 8:54 am
Nirek,
Cool Cool! >:O) I didn’t want to teach Anatomy because I had Astronomy to explain it. We’ll leave it for the readers to interpret! See, I want to get a (U/A) certificate not a (A)!! >:O)
ranjhith said,
January 30, 2007 at 3:24 am
Nirek,
Cool Cool! >:O) I didn't want to teach Anatomy because I had Astronomy to explain it. We'll leave it for the readers to interpret! See, I want to get a (U/A) certificate not a (A)!! >:O)
ganesh said,
February 2, 2007 at 4:26 pm
i actually guessed it…but before posting i read the update also…
ganesh said,
February 2, 2007 at 10:56 am
i actually guessed it…but before posting i read the update also…
Ranjhith said,
February 5, 2007 at 10:28 am
Ganesh,
Hoo! You actually got it? Man, I was expecting this from you. >:O)
ranjhith said,
February 5, 2007 at 4:58 am
Ganesh,
Hoo! You actually got it? Man, I was expecting this from you. >:O)
ganesh said,
February 7, 2007 at 5:45 pm
my guess was not marriage…but getting a boy/gal friend
ganesh said,
February 7, 2007 at 12:15 pm
my guess was not marriage…but getting a boy/gal friend